One popular idea is that God has for each of us one special, ideal person and that we need to wait until that person crosses our path. Many of us have been taught in the Church that God has a specific person for us, and only that specific person will do. We have been told that we need to pray and fast and search until that specific person appears. This is a myth. There are no Scriptural grounds to support the idea that there is one and only one “Mr. Right” or “Miss Ideal” for every person…